#331 ; Loving someone can either be easy or hard.
Sometimes, love can last and build a happily ever after together.
Sometimes, love can make you bleed for a really long time.
Sometimes, love can force you two apart despite loving each other.
Sometimes, love can make you both hating and loving the person.
Sometimes, love can fade away without days/weeks/months/years all of a sudden.
There are so many types of love in this world, be it good or bad. Life is always unpredictable, we won't know what will happen next. Whether it ended suddenly or begin suddenly, no one can comprehend the emotions. There are many emotions for both. Whether in love, out of love, crushing or whatever it is, there are all emotions of love. We love a lot, we hate a lot yet in the end, we all try to find our suitable happily ever after. Some people take a lifetime to find the right one. Some people have to be hurt multiple times till they find the right one. Some people will rather be solo and not find the right one at all. So many types of people facing love differently. I have a good friend of mine, she's hurt by love. She has been together with her boyfriend for almost four years. The man suddenly ended things with her, by saying his feelings fade and wanting to play. Whenever a man ended a relationship by saying "My feelings fade.", I hated the man instantly even if I know I knew the man previously. B'coz that shows how much value they put in a relationship and how they view it. It's pointless to evaluate. I have been hurt by my first love who ended things with me by saying his feelings faded. I know whenever my friends been hurt by man who said such things, my heart sank and I will be really pissed. B'coz why bother to start a relationship when your motive is basically just to play. Really, I find such things are the worst thing a break up line should ever exist. My friend is really sad, depressed over the sudden change of everything. I have been texting her daily. I know she's sad, depressed, emotional and all negative feelings for I know she loved the man like never before. After all the loves she given, he just ended it all. I know I should not say anything or what. But it simply makes me feel that man are weird creatures. Loving someone is already tough enough especially after so many quarrels. But just when you thought that both of you are stabling down and then, a bomb happened. I don't understand how can people take love so easily sometimes. We all have been hurt, but is it necessary to be like that? Especially when you know that you two have finally found each other. I think maybe I am too young to comment but it's just how unreasonable love can be. Everyone dies in the hands of love, b'coz we live and end up dying after. No idea what's with the world, just probably sucking it up. I know I can't understand much but it makes me feel love is really fragile. It can just go away like that, or it can stay here and be the best. Oh well... How can I ever explain love. So many things can happen within moments. We can't even catch our breath when it all happens. I just hope sometimes love can be always smooth sailing but let's just say, if you are meant to be, it's yours. If you are not meant to be, it won't be yours.
Right at this moment, I hope my friend can find happiness within her heart. I know what it feels. I have no appetite when I lose DAn, I practically lose myself when I lose him. I know the feeling of no one is there and just being sad is all that is helping me. I know my friend has been doing retail therapy and everything to not think at all. But her heart is still down. I can feel it b'coz I know she love him more than words can say. I know consoling her is very difficult but I will stand by her as long as she needs me. That's what friends are for, isn't it. I love you, my dearest Godsister. Please be safe and be happy. I know one day, someone will love you more than anything else despite the current one has hurt you really badly. We all tends to love a lot. But sometimes we might meet with setbacks causing endless heartbreaks in the end. But we have to believe that happily ever after do exist. Just a matter of time which will be the one. I know how hard it is to lose someone. But no matter what, he hurt you, he made you have a rainy day, but fret not, I will always be your sunny day there for you. We are sisters and definitely I love you sister. You're the sister I am glad to know. Love may hurt you but don't hate love. Cos the right love will come when it's meant to.
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| Sisters always, alright. :D |
